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Self-consciousness as data

I was listening to a podcast today, and this gave me the idea for today’s post.

What are the things that we’ve placed on a pedestal in our Life, that slows us down and keeps us static?

We are infinite Beings who have decided to come to this planet to experience abundance in its purest form.

It’s all good to know, but once we’ve decided to serve a greater purpose, what are the specificities we must look for, to attain that goal?

We know that looking within is important. It’s the most important thing we must do in order to be able to live our Life harmoniously. We should never look at the world for answers, but inside of ourselves. We should never look for peace out there, but find it first inside of ourselves. We should always accept reality for what it is, and look for a way to deal with it inwards.

Let’s be honest with ourselves. There is obviously something we cling onto, that prevents us from receiving abundance and blessings greater than we could ever imagine. There’s no need to judge ourselves in the process, by the way. When we judge ourselves, we are being emotional, and it stifles the authenticity of the data we need to examine.

For example, if we attach to a person we just met and place them in the character of being our soulmate, we are actually shrinking our vibration, and we emit lack. It prevents us from receiving what we are truly meant to receive, because we attach by trying to fit in this small box of being with this person. In the meantime, the real one cannot come in, because our energy is focused on the previous person. We cannot embody two different energetical states at the same time.

Going inwards, looking at the stuff we’re going through and that we have trouble to detach from, is key. I want to also acknowledge here that it is of thorough importance to not omit how far we’ve come. We have worked so hard to fix ourselves up, that even though the wheel of momentum does not stop, we can still take a break and appreciate how far we’ve come. Our state of Being is a reflection of what we’ve become, of what we are embodying at every second. Acknowledging our path for what it is, is part of our healing. We don’t do it often because we assume we must keep grinding. But acknowledging this fact through embodiment is compulsory in order for us to reach a higher vibration.

The more we heal, the higher we vibe, the closer to God our state of Being is. I want to be clear on the following: the more we create space inside of ourselves by detaching of wanting validation, a specific person, a financial situation, a job, the closer we bring ourselves to receiving those blessings. Our only job is to clear this stuck energy out of ourselves, by being aware of our blockages. The Universe/God will take care of the rest. It’s only a matter of what we choose for our greatest good.

This attachment is blocking us from receiving love, freedom, ease, harmony. What if our greatest good was to be received when we surrender to the reality of our experience?

With love and gratitude,

Caroline

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Take off your mask

One of the greatest lies of the human experience is inauthenticity.

Let’s be real here. Most of us pretend to be someone we’re not. In front of family, in front of friends, in front of coworkers, in front of potential partners.

We are so used to being this human, that we don’t truly know who we are. So many layers of conditioning have kicked in from the day we were born, till now. So many beliefs, so many automatic responses, that we no longer ask ourselves this question. Who are we, really?

It’s like when we match someone on dating apps. When we get to finally hang out with the guy we’ve matched with, we spend hours pimping ourselves up in the mirror, putting our best makeup, dressing up with our most expensive dress and fancy shoes, and we aim to look like an 11 out of 10. But isn’t it lying to the person in front of us, to show this best side of ourselves? Why wouldn’t we show up as we truly are, without artifice?

It depends where we grew up, but there is this social norm that we should always look our best and pretend that we’re all fine. We’re not. And that’s ok. I’m not talking about dumping our emotions on some acquaintances we meet on the street, but about being honest with ourselves. I’m talking about facing reality for what it is and being grounded in this reality. I’m talking about being honest with our feelings, emotions, our way of Being, and the way we live our Life. Why not change the way we interact with others, and be a bit more authentic? A bit more vulnerable? “Oh Gosh, I could never.” Why? Because we are so used to pretending and living up to people’s standards. What about what WE want?

Plus, pretending to be someone else does not serve us, but neither does it serve other people. The root of our interaction with them being based on a lie, that means we emit a vibration of self-interest, that we want to be chosen and approved by them. This mindset aligns straight into a vibration of scarcity, of lack. This is what we emit every second we spend being inauthentic. And it takes so much energy to pretend. When we free up this energy to align with our true self, we get in flow and everything feels like ease.

Because if we are not being authentic, we will spend our entire Life trying to please others, to belong somewhere, to possess stuff that no longer matters when we get old, and trying to be someone we were not meant to be from the beginning. Why not chill a little, step back, and look within us? There is so much beauty that is buried under all these different masks we force ourselves to wear. To please who? And why? Why do we do that? Because we want to belong. Because we believe that people will accept us this way, because we will feel alive, by getting other people’s validation. But how can they accept us, if from the start, we do not accept ourselves the way we truly are? How miserable we make ourselves, pretending for years, and in some cases, for a lifetime? This is a lack of self-compassion to ourselves.

How are we supposed to have boundaries with others, if we are tolerating our own behaviour? How are we supposed to entertain healthy relationships with others if we lie to ourselves? How are we supposed to be in a reliable, trustworthy, and honest relationship with a partner, if we pretend? I know people who live this way, and they are miserable. And because they’ve gone too far, they think it’s too late. But it’s never too late. We can start from now on, to be authentically ourselves.

I agree, it takes work, effort. Fear gets in the way. But being authentic, by acknowledging who we are as a whole, is life changing. We must be at peace with our traumas, how we’ve lived our Life, how we’ve treated others, and how others have treated us, and move on to the real awareness of Life. It doesn’t matter what people think about us. That’s their stuff to deal with. Among the billions of people on this planet, what are we supposed to do? Be a different person every time we meet someone new? It’s not sustainable, and our energy suffers from that state.

Being grounded in ourselves in one of the most beautiful gifts we must afford.

Because when we make this decision, there is no turning back. There is nowhere to hide. There is no exit. How frightening? Well, it’s up to us. Would we rather live in heaven, or in hell? It’s time to get real with ourselves.

Knowing who we truly are, without stopping every two seconds by looking at others and comparing ourselves, does not cost anything. Except our freedom. Comparison is irrelevant, we are our unique self, and no one knows what is feels like to be us. The only way for us to know is to EXPERIENCE that, by looking within. This energy of authenticity aligns with the energy of God. And when we do that, everything changes.

With love and gratitude,

Caroline

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Energy as a superpower

Ever wondered why when we are vibing high, we see the glass half full? Or when we are depressed, we see the glass half empty? When our glass is full, we feel pumped up, ready to tackle anything that comes to us, and we don’t take shit from anybody. When we experience the opposite, we tend to take shit from everybody. How does that feel in our body? Not particularly pleasant. It’s due to our state of Being, in other words, the energy we are embodying at this present moment.

We all know that everything is energy. Science proved it times and times again. But as humans, we have trouble acknowledging that fact. Why? Because we get stuck in our head, where the physical reality we believe in tends to be the one that is in front of us, or that is presented to us.

Many philosophies agree with that. We are just a ball of energy ourselves. If the Universe is made of energy that turned into matter, that makes perfect sense.

With this intellectual knowledge in our pocket, we go on with our day, but we tend to think that we are not able to go beyond our current state of Being.

Our energy acts like a feedback mechanism. When we feel drained, tired, exhausted, our energy indicates that it is flowing in the wrong spot. When we tend to feel irritated by someone, we nourish the interaction with our attention, and so we give them energy. When we are in a flow state, everything seems so chill, walking on clouds, feeling like home. Such a familiar state of Being, but at the same time, unfamiliar. Why? Because we are so used to our old way of Being.

What we see in those patterns is that we have control over them. Our energy is at the basis of everything. It was there before, and it will be there long after the physical body is gone. So, we need to pay attention to it. The only energy that is real is that of God. Or The Universe. Or the Universal Mind. Or the Creator. It just depends on how we call it. So, in order for us to live our Truth and be in the highest vibrational state possible, we must shift our energy state from our low, regular, alarm bells state, to one of ease, peace, harmony, abundance, love.

I must add something here: before we do this, we need to know ourselves. Because if we have stuck or repressed emotions in our body or haven’t been able to tune in to check up on ourselves, we don’t know what we feel inside. We need to be real with ourselves, vulnerable, and accept the good, the bad, and the ugly. It takes work. No one likes to feel pain. But I reckon this is necessary for us to experience the other side of pain. When we allow ourselves to feel one end of the stick, the other end will be available to us. It’s just a transmutation of energy.

In practical terms, shifting our energy is simple: we embody the energy of God by literally feeling inside of ourselves the joy, ease, harmony, abundance, love.

Once we put the reps in, Life will flow so magically, synchronicities will abound, and we will be able to receive thoughts and ideas, that we wouldn’t normally have access to in our lower state of Being.

If we want to improve ourselves, becoming better people for ourselves and the world, we must take responsibility for our state of Being. One step at a time, investing in our healing, by re-calibrating our energy to its natural frequency. And I can tell you that people will feel it when they meet up with you. Let’s not be a victim to our scattered energy and let’s take ownership of it, to give ourselves what we want.

With love and gratitude,

Caroline

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Wisdom from the ages

I remember this coworker from a lifetime ago. He used to cheat on his wife every single week with a different customer. His wife was gorgeous and their little kid adorable, while they were expecting another one. I was curious of his behaviour and why he was doing it. He just said “carpe diem.” Then he mentioned that they had (a) kid(s) because he wanted someone to take care of him when he would get old. This stuck with me for a long time.

Through my current job, I meet a lot of people. I make their Life easier by helping them on a psychological, emotional, physical level.

I’m not going to lie, I see a lot of misery. I see routines. I see addictive behaviours. I see family patterns. I see loneliness. I don’t see a lot of joy.

People I work with are either in the sunset of their Life or disabled due to a physical or psychological trauma. Some are in recovery. Some will never recover. Some are physically healthy. Some have dementia.

What I see is that my patients have lived many different lives: some have worked their entire lives, and did not know anything else. Some have not worked that much, but they became addicted to something. Some had a successful family Life. Some lost children. Some lost their life companion at a young age. They endured Life. They went through it, breathed it in, and they made it. Despite all the traumas, the family feuds, wars, the lack, or abundance of money.

What I feel from most of them is that they are waiting. Waiting for what? Some want to reach a specific age as a milestone, and some tell me daily that they just want to die already. They are fatigued, exhausted, and when the children are still around, the relationship can be quite hostile.

Despite all of that, they carry themselves with such simplicity and dignity. They are beyond pretending, they are beyond caring what people think of them. They are just being. This is pure grace and magic.

How do we reach a point where we just want to die? I don’t have the answer. I’m not at the age where I have to think about that yet. Or am I? Buddhism teaches us that we must prepare for Death. Learn, meditate, talk, walk and breathe Death. Do we really want that? Do we want to face our finitude?

Well, it’s up to us. Being confronted with so much wisdom on a daily basis, I see that it is necessary to prepare for it. Life prepares us for it already, by throwing many things at us. Nothing is inherently good or bad, just the way we react to it, Buddhists say. But we also have the power to prepare for it by the way we are eating, by how we are thinking, by the kind of relationships we are entertaining. By the conscious choices we make, by the meaning we give them. Do those make us healthier, and live longer, or do they bring us closer to Death? Have we conditioned our mind to fear it when it comes, or will we be at peace when it embraces us? How do we want to live this final moment? Just like another day in our Life, this too shall pass. The last decision we will make is so, so precious. How do we want to show up for this final act? Let’s make sure we make the right decision.

With love and gratitude,

Caroline

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Who the heck am I?

Today I had a million ideas to write about, but I picked this one. I decided to write about me, and you, and everybody.

Who am I? THE big question that we’ve never asked ourselves. Up to one tipping point in our lives. Either a grandiose purpose that has been revealed to us during a trip to Costa Rica, or a very low moment when we reached rock bottom.

For me, it was neither. I was living my Life as a human being, working, working, working. I did not do much more than that. I was working as a Chef, and did not have the mental space when I was getting back home late at night. I wasn’t necessarily happy, but I was just playing along. I liked my job, but realized later it was my ego who liked it. Every time people were asking wat I was doing for a living, they were so impressed when I had pronounced the magical letters. C-H-E-F. Add to this fact that my country of origin is France, and there you have it. People had stars in their eyes, and I was content to live up to their expectations. I knew though that there was more to Life, but I did not have the awareness to understand it yet.

Everything was routinely the same thing, until the world collapsed one year. Yes, you know what year I’m talking about, the (in)famous 2020.

One night in April, I had a dream. A dream that changed everything. Not the kind of dream in which you find yourself walking naked on the street and then going to bowling with your coworkers and then meeting your ex. I’m talking about those specific dreams that carry an energetic trail after you wake up, and during the day. For me, this trail lasted for days. I won’t get share the dream with you here, but it stuck with me. I could not do anything else than feel it, as I was carrying its imprint with me. This dream turned my world upside down. This dream saved my Life.

This is when my Life began for real. I opened up to a world full of unknown things: presence, awareness, state of Being, living in the moment, thoughts becoming things, that we are not our thoughts etc. The list goes on and on.

And a question was raised in my mind: who am I? Big one. You can stop reading here if you’re looking for the secrets of The Universe, the answer is not below.

Who am I? I started to look for answers within. I questioned everything: my looks, my tastes, my behavior, what I was eating, how I was reacting to people’s opinions, my relationship with my family, with friends. How was that possible that I had not been aware of all this before? Well, considering that working was my main preoccupation, I had my nose to the grindstone and was not able to see anything else.

During this time, I fully went into monk mode, and I experienced huge amounts of pain. But this was necessary for me to see. To see the Truth. Who am (was) I? Someone who was living to work, who did not pay attention to what she was putting in her body, was performing to a T emotional eating, who had shallow relationships with “friends” who were running on the same track of Life, and who thought the Truth was coming from the mouth of older family members or people high in the hierarchy. Ah, and also, a constant state of fight or flight in my body, that was leading to chronic physical pain.

How did I feel when I realized that? I was in awe. Truly. In awe of how blind I had been, thinking I had my shit together, while I was not even close to 1% of where I am today.

I remember having a conversation around this time with a coworker younger than me. He was raised in Nepal and from 11 years old onward, was sent every school holiday to this “spiritual camp” for kiddos. He learned meditation there, how to deal with thoughts and regulate emotions. He was very much self-conscious, and I couldn’t help myself but notice the gap of awareness between us.

So, I rolled up my sleeve and applied myself to go through my own spiritual camp. I had no idea what I was getting myself into.

And oh boy, how hard it was! How big was this gap between the Life I was living in the 3D, and my lack of spiritual health. Step by step, bit by bit, one minute, one hour, one day after another, I started to find my pace. My awareness was up to the roof, I was having many psychic dreams (I call psychic dreams those dreams that you remember and in which you feel yourself deeply involved), and many synchronicities happening to me.

In my opinion, we all must go through this in our lifetimes. I call it finding our Truth.

For me, Truth means to experience, express, demonstrate and fulfill our identity in this Life. Who we really are.

How the hell do we do that? Well, when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. That’s what they say. I was ready on a deep level, but was my Human ready? Not sure. It came like a tornado and took away most things she believed were true.

Since I’ve walked this path, I cannot unlearn some concepts, some truths, some ways of Being. It’s just impossible to go back to the old self. I’ve come to be at peace with the fact that I will never be able to know the truth of it all, or to experience all the wonders my mind has in store, in this lifetime. And that’s totally fine. For me, the most important thing in my Life is to be of service as best I can, be a good Human, and evolve and grow following my dreams with what Life has in store for me.

Life has so much to teach us, so much for us here and now. Everything we need is HERE AND NOW. Trust me. We are just so blinded by the hows, or by something that happened in the past, or by something or someone we want in our lives in the future. How can I be there if I’m not present? How can I enjoy the future if I can’t let go of my past, or rush in my present? How can I be joyful and free, if I keep clinging onto the things that bring me suffering right now?

I’m sure of one thing, it’s that whatever we need to learn in this Life will be presented to us, and if we don’t make peace with it, we will keep experiencing it over and over again. And it takes WORK. And it takes going to battle with oneself. It’s not easy, it’s not pretty. It’s lonely.

It never stops. Life never stops happening. No matter how far we try to run away, from a country, an ex-lover, a job. No matter in what drug or addictive behavior we drown ourselves into. No matter the excuses we keep telling ourselves, or how victimized we pretend to be by our past or current circumstances.

Life will keep happening for us to redirect to our Truth. It’s up to us to acknowledge it and make changes.

With love and gratitude,

Caroline

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The Winds of Change

I recently became an auntie, and the medical team has to use a ventouse to help my nephew out. When I saw the picture of this little guy after his first seconds on this planet, he seemed like he had a rough time. It got me thinking about the Buddhist concept that birth is suffering.

As soon as we step foot on this planet, we suffer. By being taken out of the womb, by being cold, hot, not fed straight away. There are millions of reasons that we suffer from the first few seconds of our existence.

Fast forward a few years. Mum and Dad have another kid, and we are not the favorite anymore. We get jealous, resentful, angry. Fast forward the teenage years, and we experience our first heartbreak. We feel like this pain will never go away. Then we become adults, and while being part of society, we complain that the government is doing this or not doing that. That our boss is putting pressure on us, that our partner does not understand us, that the kids don’t listen to us. We are still navigating in the waters of suffering.

Some people go through Life in suffering mode, and they will arrive at the end of their Life without ever changing. And that’s ok. And for others, something shifts, when they either have found their purpose, or when they have experienced too much pain. This is usually the beginning of the healing journey.

We go on our way, chest pumped up, and we start learning. Breathwork. Meditation. Eastern philosophies. Cold exposure therapy. Energy work. Prayers. Trip to India. Gratitude journals, and so on. We get happier, and people start noticing it. We start glowing from the inside out.

Being on this journey is fantastic, and once we have started walking the path, it’s nearly impossible to stop. It feels so good that we never want to go back to our old self. Ever again.

But then a bump on the road happens. And another one. And another one. We treat ourselves harshly, thinking we could have done better. That we know better, with all the work that we’ve already done. That we shouldn’t fall for this toxic guy, that we shouldn’t be materialistic, that we shouldn’t entertain ourselves with cute dog videos on YouTube.

These days, our culture and societies place the emphasis on quick fix and short-term gratification. We are conditioned to want and get everything quickly. The truth is, growth and being our best self does not happen overnight. It happens when things get tough. When it rains outside, and when we still go to the gym. When a friend shows up with beers, and we choose water. When we prioritize working on our business instead of scrolling on Instagram.

Growth and becoming someone better than we used to be, take time. Everything that is life-changing is a slow process. Everything that is for our greatest good (and the greatest good of all), is worthy of putting as much time as we can give it. As we are willing to give it. So instead of worrying about us not being enlightened and not being “there” yet, we should give ourselves a hug in those moments, reflect on how far we have come, and have compassion and kindness for ourselves.

With love and gratitude,

Caroline

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Driving lessons from John

I will always remember my driving instructor, John. John, if you are reading this, I love you. As soon as I started driving on my first lesson, he kind of spoke very loud with his thick Aussie accent and said, “stay in your lane.” I used to overlap on other lanes, so hence the phrase that would become a mantra in my Life. This lasted for the entire session and a few more after that, until I got the message. Stay in your lane. Sometimes, you meet people who change your life forever. Apart from the delicate and wonderful driving instructor he was, John was about to, without knowing it, give me one of the keys to understanding and experiencing Life.

I was a bit scared to drive, and when I took lessons with John, he made me comfortable straight away. He was over a certain age, let’s say he was in the mature part of Life. Anyway, he was always full of Life advice. When I was complaining about being surrounded by too many cars so I couldn’t turn in my street, he would nonchalantly say “they are just being on the road like you” and this would calm me down straight away.

I remember telling him that I didn’t know when to insert myself safely on the road, and he would say “if you can walk, you can drive.” He had this capacity to answer my questions and deflate my stress with a grounded voice and driving hacks that I still use to this day.

The point I’m making here is, we all drive a vehicle. This vehicle is our Human Self. And when we don’t know how to drive, we freak out. We freeze. We run away. We have accidents. We make mistakes. When those happen, we tend to diminish ourselves, as if us not knowing how to drive was unsurmountable. So many layers of beliefs and conditioning come into play when we drive our own vehicle. I won’t get into details here, this will be the subject of many other articles. It’s all part of the human experience.

And sometimes, when we know how to drive, we choose to speed up and end up crashing our vehicle. If we are lucky, we are the only one hurt. If we are not, we end up crashing in someone’s property and involve innocent humans. We might recover from it, or it might be fatal. Either way, this is our responsibility. We drive our own vehicle, and this is our foot on the gas and brake pedals (for fellow manual drivers out there, don’t forget the clutch). We are the main driver in our Life. Owning this and knowing that we are fully responsible for our actions. As wise, silly, or impulsive they are, this is hard to swallow.

Acknowledging that simple fact will help shift all the negative behaviors and complaints we have about Life, because no matter what happens out there, we always have the choice. Every decision we make is either shrinking us or expanding us. Every decision we make does not only involve us, but others. Every decision we make has short term repercussions and long-term effects. Positive or negative. When we understand this fact on all levels of our Being, we will stay in our own lane. But we need to take it easy on ourselves. We need to have patience, and compassion for ourselves.

We all have a vehicle, and we must learn to use it properly, for our own benefit, and for the benefit of others. With a clean, properly functioning vehicle and a full tank, we can go anywhere we want. We just have to want it. We will learn to drive properly, respect the traffic laws, fully aware that other vehicles are just trying to go home safely. Just like us.

Stay in your lane, and enjoy driving your car, because this is the best you can do for yourself and others.

With love and gratitude,

Caroline

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Getting advice from others… or not

Hello there! I was thinking about the first official article I would write for this blog, and among many ideas, I picked this one. This is something that I’ve experienced so many times, so I thought this would be interesting to talk about. Bear in mind that those posts reflect my own experience of Life, and I will always speak my Truth with authenticity, vulnerability and humor. Enjoy!

Years ago one evening, I was getting back from work and I crashed with my bike. Weeks later, when my coworker saw me coming to work, riding my bike, he said to me “you should never ride your bike ever again, it’s too dangerous.”

At that time, I was just at the beginning of my healing work, so I was not feeling a lot of compassion for people with unsolicited advice. I wanted to laugh so hard at this guy’s face. I told him this was something that lit me up, and that I would do it as long as possible. He insisted by saying that I could end up getting really hurt NEXT TIME.

It got me thinking about all the advice people give you every day. You should stop being single. You should stop being broke. You should stop eating junk food. You should stop smoking weed. You should stop scrolling. You should stop being envious. You should stop seeing this guy. You should stop taking life lightly. And then, the other way around. You should get your Life together. You should get married. You should eat this healthy food. You should use this app. You should be like I want you to be.

I should stop being myself, right? I’m not saying here we should condone self-destructive behaviors, this is not the topic of this post. I’m talking here about people who give you recommendations on how to live your Life, while you are minding your own business.

It starts with family. Your parents or siblings who haven’t healed their stuff. Your grandparents, who might have experienced tremendous amounts of pain depending on where and when they grew up, and who have carried with them this fear of uncertainty their entire lives.

Then you have friends and lovers, who have been with you for a short or long period of time, and who know you through the lens of the common experiences you went through together, and the things you’ve allowed them to see.

Then you have coworkers or acquaintances, people you have to spend time in order to perform a duty you are all paid for during a timed period. Like my coworker who was obviously living in fear of what could happen.

There is a common human occurrence that happens in this world. Mostly in people who are not busy taking care of their healing. It is that of giving unsolicited advice. We all know we should never get an advice from a broke person regarding our finances, so why do we accept advice from people who are not doing the work or who do not have their shit together?

The advice people give you is most of the time coming from a good intention. They are either trying to help you out with their awareness of the situation or trying to control how they feel about it. It also might trigger something in them that they are not comfortable with. From a psychological perspective, people who give you unsolicited advice tend to see Life from a narrow point of view. They live Life through the lens of their experience, that they think is the best, and for them, there is no other way than their’s. This reveals a lack of compassion and self-awareness regarding your journey, and this is something that we can be affected by if we are not careful.

From a spiritual perspective, the unsolicited advisers hack the energy around you. Instead of letting you be, letting you experience Life as yourself, they are resisting reality. They are resisting the present moment, thinking it should be otherwise. That you should be or do otherwise. When you are doing something that people disagree with, they are stealing your energy. To worry for someone is to steal their energy. To reprimand a child is to steal their energy. To put yourself in someone’s shoes is to steal their energy. This energy stealing is the same we see in energy vampires or narcissists.

As we are all doing our best to understand how we approach Life from our personal perspective, we should be able to question whether the pieces of advice that are given to us are legit or not. Let it be from people, or internet, or social media, there are as many opinions as people on this earth. So we must be cautious what we let in, let it be an advice and the energy that comes with it. It will be fine as long as we are keeping our best interests in mind and are checking regularly with ourselves.

I’ll finish this post with a quote from The Minimalists: “Unsolicited advice is the ego’s most dangerous weapon.”

Thanks for reading!

With love and gratitude,

Caroline

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Welcome to my blog!

Howdy! Welcome to my blog! I’m so glad to mark this day as my first blogging journey. Let me introduce myself briefly. I’m Caroline, born in France and a world traveller. I’ve lived a thousand lives (in this lifetime, I’m not talking about the previous ones), and I’ve been wanting to write about my interests FOR YEARS. After many battles with my ego, I decided to jump into it and to write this blog, no matter what. I will share personal life experiences as well as things I’ve learned along the way. I greet you with open arms and I wish you a wonderful read! With much love, Caroline

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